It’s a small world and I know it……

Well certainly it’s a very small world when it comes to the swinging community. Yesterday I got a mail addressed to me as “Dear GPL” and was pleasantly surprised to see someone address me by this name as these brought back memories of my party days. Seeing the word “GPL” I immediately knew that who all they could have been. It was not someone from India as during the parties here I am the organizer and never take part in any action. But in my UK clubbing days I was the “Great Pussy Licker” there :-) (yours truly was very popular among the mature ladies ) so it had to be one of the couple from the place where I was in the hall of fame. And considering the fact that I never mentioned anything about that in my blog and there is not any personal description about me on the blog….someone coming and addressing me as GPL and getting it right was nothing short of a miracle!!!! . Just goes on to show that’s it’s really a small world that has been made even much smaller then the advent of the internet

Finally its curtains for Indian Swingers this year…….

The last party of the year happened yesterday. And what a night it turned out to be. The sets were one of the most elaborate that we ever had in our parties (thanks to andy and riya for it. You are fabulous). For once the grope wall did not fall and the lick chairs had full occupancy :-) . And for once I had a sense of achievement and satisfaction after a long time. When I started to work on this concept I had very little belief that people would be open to this concept in India as typically wife swapping is the kind of activity people engage in. But now I feel that there is a refreshing change in our sexuality and we as a society are more open in expression of our sexuality…….. There were two couples whom I really missed having as guests in this party. They had so patiently waited for this party but it just took a little long than I expected so they were not able to make it for this party. One of them has left for china to purse their professional careers and I wish them luck on behalf of each of us at the Indian swingers……….. Now its finally over and I say goodbye to all those lovely people who made each of the parties memorable but I leave you all with a promise that we would be back next year with a better and much improved version of the Indian Swingers.!!!!!!

Don’t miss the final swingers party of the year!!!!

My professional engagements have been keeping me very busy of late. And as things stand I don’t see it getting any better in the near future. Honestly I feel a guilty when those lovely couples who have put so much of trust and faith in me are expecting the parties to happen and I just have to ask them to wait. It’s not fair on them so I have decided to hold one last party for the year and take a little break and come back next year. Since this is the last party I would try my best to make it a memorable one for all of us. A couple of European swingers have also shown interest so this one is going to be an interracial swinger’s party!!! So be sure to book your slots now (only two slots left) at one of the safest and discreet swinging parties in Delhi. Inspired by the Olympics this party would also feature some of the wildest and entertaining sex games that we would call the sex Olympics!!! So what are you lovely people waiting for? Mail me now at swingers.india.gmail.com and I personally promise you the best time you would have ever had for a long time. :-)

PS: In this party every one would be tagged by the names they feel reflect their sexual mood during the party. So if you decided that you are in a slutty mood then you can very well ask for the tag of “Slutty Anita”!!!

Its always Safety first at Indian Swingers

I am very passionate about sex but at the same time the safety of our members is always my highest priority. If any point of time I feel that the safety (including both health and social) of any of the couples is at stake I would not think twice before closing down the club activities. For me personally swinging is an alternate lifestyle but I would never like to risk anyone’s honor to promote this lifestyle. It’s simply not worth it. I have always tried to make the arrangements fool proof so that everyone can enjoy freely. As a part of these arrangements I have now decided that all our parties that would be held from now on would have Spy Cam Jammers. Although the risk is not very real but I still don’t want to take any chances. I have started the hunt for some good Spy Cam Jammers and would request all lovely swingers out there to help me in this search as my knowledge on these devices is very limited. If you have any suggestion you can mail me at swingers.india@gmail.com

Indian Swingers make their debut at Second Life!!!!

Saturday night for me personally was one of the most exciting and satisfying things to have happened for long. Our swingers club went hi-tech and we had our first virtual world party in Second Life. Though it was done in a rented Sim but it was still great fun. Some of the swingers from Norway joined in and the DJ Samantha was playing some excellent Punjabi music. Now I am very keen to rent a full time club in Second Life as it can provide all the excitement of swinging minus the risks that are generally attached with it. Those who know how to play Second Life well would tell you that most of the time the experience would even beat the real life experience (ask me :-)). The best thing about it is that you can choose the jazziest and sexiest avatar and take part in orgies that you never even saw in movies and still remain totally disease free!!!!. This is after all what every Indian Swinger looks forward too- Confidentiality, Secrecy, Safety and Fun and this is something you can get easily in Second Life.

Warning: Second life can be very addictive.

Another night of swinging fun in Delhi

Last Saturday we conducted our fourth swinger’s party and it has was fun and there were a few takeaways from it.

• Indian Men Can Swing: I have a friend in Neitherlands who runs a swingers club over there and whenever I ask her about how the Indian fare in the parties she alays says with the straight face “Indian Men can’t swing.” and changes the topic of conversation immediately. Mrs Juno I know you are wrong. Indian Men Can Swing!!!!!

• Indian Women are more aware: There was one little game which we played in which everyone was expected to remember the color of the underwear they were wearing. Nearly all men did not remember the color and almost all the women were bang on with the color.

• Lots of effort goes into organizing one swingers party. To organize one party of 5 couples I attend lots of willing participants, sometimes they don’t even turn up and my effort goes waste. Then I have to be a one man army to manage everything because when in society like India lots is at stake when you engage yourself in swinging But when I get a mail like this I know that all the effort was worth it.

“Dear Don,

We would thank you for being a wonderful host. We had lots of apprehensions before the party but now we know we are in safe hands. I know it won’t be easy to accommodate the request but we would like to attend the next party too. We feel freshness in our relationship and it seems that we have again started living those wonderful years and now we feel free and liberated.

Looking to participate once more.

Luv

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Greedy girls parties in Delhi

Some of the lovely ladies told me that Indian women are now a liberated lot and we should now be holding greedy girls parties too. So here I am announcing the greedy girls parties where girls would be in majority and they would drive the action. All the adventurous ladies who can be wilder than our wildest fantasies are invited………..

As always the rules of the party remain the same and can be found at:

http://indianswingers.blogspot.com/2008/03/rules-for-our-swingers-club.html

Is God a Swinger?

Yesterday I found myself stuck in a traffic jam and in a couple of minutes I was wishing upon the stars to give me wings so that I can fly though the traffic jam. I was getting late for the swingers party I had to organize and because of my busy schedule this week I hardly found any time to plan and prepare anything in advance. I had promised a few new activities I needed to be at the venue in time to make sure everything goes smoothly. While trying hard to hold my nerves in the traffic jam I found this gentleman on my right honking wildly at me and the desperation on his face told me that something was wrong. Had I hit his car unknowingly and caused a damage which was irreparable? Then I saw him pointing his fingers and my heart sank because it was much worse than what I feared, I had a flat wheel!!! I could hear people honking at me left, right north and south. I was already getting such nasty looks from my fellow earthlings as if I had committed a triple murder and was standing with the weapon of murder in my hand at the crime scene. Thankfully, I had renewed my cross roads subscription a couple of days back so at least I knew I help would be only a call away(that subscription for once looked like the best investment I had done in the whole year). And as I waited for help I was forced to do the thanks less job of a traffic cop(that too an untrained one) who every passer by was abusing as if taking part in a free for all competition. I did not even dare to ask for help from anyone because I could not afford anyone peeping inside my car because with all those apparatus lying in the car they would have certainly thought I was some sex maniac on the loose..........................

Fast forward my saga to 35 minutes and I found myself as among a lovely group of people. I was greeted with such enthusiasm that my ego immediately took an instant boost. I narrated them my harrowing experience and the concern and affection that I was shown was almost unbelievable. Under normal circumstances I would not surprised as I know from experience that genuine swingers are an emotionally educated community but after having such a bad time the place where I found myself was looking divine. Everybody was so polite so courteous and chivalry that sounds like a Victorian word these days was seen every where. The hugs were just as warm as the hellos and the smiles were so infectious that I felt like I had finally come home. From a state of utter chaos and confusion where I was screaming inside me “dilli to pagal hai” to a state which had such a calming affect on me that the quick transformation almost looked magical. It left me asking the question” Is this what Utopia would be like?”. Within a couple of minutes with some helping hands I hands I had set everything up and seeing the cheerful lot I knew that the party had already started. And as I sit here and think about what all happened last night I wonder “Is god a swinger?”

Groping parties for first time swingers

I get many mails daily from couples and single ladies asking me about the best way to get initiated to this whole concept of swinging. All of them have the same concerns and the most common being whether they would like it at all!!! So for all such newbie’s we have decided to hold Groping Parties. As the name suggests these would be limited to groping and voyeur. There would be play areas meant specifically for groping and exploring (areas for both men and women) and also there would be rules associated with each play area which we expect everyone to obey. If you are outside the play areas then you can just sit relax and indulge into voyeurism and without any pressure to participate.


So if swinging was always your fantasy now is the time for you to experiment and see the reality is as good as the fantasy!!!!! Rather than jumping straight into it you can just let the atmosphere rub over you so that when you jump into it, it’s a memorable and enjoyable experience for you.

Those interested can mail me at swingers.india@gmail.com. Please make sure you are ready to meet me personally for a “screening step" which is important to ensure that only particular kind of people are part of our universe.

Note: The gathering would be held for 5-10 couples/single women. The strength would under no circumstance go beyond this number. The party is specifically meant for those who don’t have any experience in swinging.

What's love got to do with it?

Most of us may not accept this fact but most of the times we are performing the act of sex just as a pure form of deriving pleasure. Most of us would willingly go that extra mile to make that feeling of ecstasy that comes with orgasm last long. So until and unless you are consciously practicing tantra (tantra is a mystical experience born out of the union between man and woman. It is an opportunity to open to energy rising up through your body and to experience merging with the Divine) most of our sexual encounters are just another activity of seeking material pleasures. No matter how long I go about justifying it but within my heart I know that I can not associate the feeling of bliss of being love with the joys of sex. If you look at it the reasoning is very simple – Most of us get aroused on seeing erotic scenes but there in no element of love involved here, Most of us would masturbate for feeling that orgasmic pleasure and certainly there is no element of love or emotions involved in it. So most of the times the experience is not necessarily related to love so I should not be making such a big fuss about it when my girl friend goes and has sex with some other guy. Just because she had sex with someone does not mean that she loves me less ………..

Polygamory, Swinging, ecstasy and jealousy

I have always been a romantic at heart and I have time and again realized that all those romantic ideas which never seem such a big deal would always remain just that – Romance of the heart. Thus the idea of Polyamory(The desire, practice, or acceptance of having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved) always looks so fascinating to me. What is the problem the heart would ask? Love is an expression of fondness of the heart and just because I love one person does not mean that I can not love any other person with equal intensity. A mother does love all her children and would do everything she can for all of them, a teacher would care equally well for all his pupils etc etc. The heart would try to reason out what logically look like pretty uncomplicated things. But the harsh truth is that we are living in an imperfect world and whatever we might try to believe the imperfection surfaces time and again and shatters all those romantic ideas. The mother always has a favorite child, the teacher always has a favored pupil etc etc and the bottom line is that that living world of ordinary mortals you can never create Utopia. Things like jealously, hatred and treachery would always creep in into any relation and this is also true for any polyamorous relationship. I was reading an article yesterday in which was describing one such polyamorous relationship in which two couples move in together and start doing and sharing everything together. The bonding becomes so strong that the kids also start feeling that they have two set of equally loving parents, But all this does not last for long and Mr A separates with Mrs Y and Mr X separates with Mrs B. And in the end I was not surprised at all that this swap and split happened because by now I fully understand the human nature in which emotions like jealousy always have a strong hold.

But why am I talking about Polyamory? Because one of my friends yesterday remarked that even if you are swinging it should have some element of intimacy as well as emotional bonding. But my point of view is that my bringing in element of emotional intimacy between two couples unnecessary complicates the things and we humans are generally very poor in handling complications that arise in relationships. So we should be only looking for an element of “Sexual Ecstasy” and nothing more than that. Lets not forget that Sexual Ecstasy was the main reason why we got initiated into swinging in the first place so why complicate things when we can keep them simple.

The joy of making love with clothes ON

A couple of days I was invited over to a party to play the role of a host. A bunch of couples were trying swinging for the fist time and the whole idea was to make it more of a fun and frolic event than making it some kind of experiment.. The idea of seeing myself into a new role motivated me and I immediately shot back a mail suggesting that there be a dress code for the party and that everyone should be wearing traditional Indian dresses (Sarees and Kurtas). From my past experiences I know that traditional Indian dresses can be very sensuous in some circumstances :-)

Finally on the day I found myself amongst three most vivacious couples I have come across in the recent months. After an hour of playing some very naughty games I was asked by this lovely lady about when I was intending to announce the start of the real games. Giving her a beaming smile I said that the games had already started. She gave me a confused look so I took this opportunity to make an announcement as a host that the rule for the night was that no one was going to strip off any clothes tonight. No un-buttoning, no unzipping whatever has to be done needs to be done with clothes on. Every one was giving me an amused look so I put them a simple question “Look back and remember what was the most exciting experience you had …It was when you had your first kiss…when you fondled his/her body for the first time … .and come to think of it you had all your clothes on at that time!!!!!” .In telling all this what I was trying to explain was that you don’t have to be all naked to be enjoying those sexual pleasures…its all in the ambiance and most importantly it’s the state of mind. So without wasting any further time I jumped into my role as a host and initiated them into a couple of erotic activities that I had mastered over the years. And within a couple of minutes the scene tuned into an erotic playground with passions soaring so high that I thought that it would be very difficult for everyone to stay clothed but everyone was sporting and all of them managed to stay in their clothes. Seeing everything going according to plan all I needed to do was to judge the right timing when the passion would grow so out of control that it would be on the verge of bursting out. The moment I felt that the time had come I asked each of them to go into the rooms with their “own partners” where they were allowed to take of their clothes. And while I sat down and drank my pepsi I knew that everyone would be having one of the most mind blowing sex they would have ever had with their partners. At the end of it all it was a job WELL DONE :-)

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The dictionary of swinging a.k.a the common terms that swingers use

Here is a list of most common terms used in the swinger’s communities. Do let me know if you come across any other terms might be added:

• Soft Swinging: In this form lots of couples/swingers are having sex in the same room but strictly with their own partners.
  
  
• Exhibitionism: Exhibitionism involves couples having sex while being watched by their partners. These are always the fantasies of every couple before the venture into swinging.
  
  
• Soft swap: Couples doing a soft swap usually just kiss, touch, watch, and perform oral sex. They indulge in sexual intercourse. This is generally encouraged fro couples who are new and are still exploring. Personally I feel that soft swap can be most satisfying and enjoyable if you know the art of erotica well. Sometimes even for experienced swingers soft swap provide a more enjoyable experience then full fledged intercourse.
  
  
• Full swap: Full swap involves couples switching partners and then having sexual intercourse.
  
  
• Group sex. Group sex is about couples having sex with more than one couple. This according to me is swinging in its purest form. This is where you rise above everything else (race, color, looks, age) and just enjoy joys of sex and feel the ecstasy that can be only matched by divine bliss.
  

Don’t believe everything you read…….

A couple of days back I came across an article in a reputed national daily about a swinger’s party and even though I am a swinger myself I was shocked to see the drooping standards of media. That newspapers had been turned into tabloids is now a generally accepted fact but they would resort to such tricks to attract more readers shows clearly that they have run short of ideas. So as a last resort the editor tells the journalist to come up with some sexually titillating content and the journalist sits down and starts thinking …and viola…he comes with a brilliant idea…the idea which he has been always fantasizing of and he beings to pen his fantasies as if everything really happened. And naturally this is something which has been a part everyone’s fantasies at some point or the other so it becomes an instant hit. This reminds me of a word that I leant form the book “Word Power Made Easy (a book which most of us would have read) – Vicarious. And obviously the journalist also remembered this word well and very shrewdly wrote an article which made the masses indulge in vicarious pleasures.

But why am I writing so strongly against such an innocuous looking report. Because it is anything but innocuous. When people read these kinds of articles they say “Well it was not only me who was thinking of these kinds of things. These things do happen and people enjoy them too”. Now the gap between fantasy and realty blurs and it starts looking like a very normal thing to do. The feeling of being vindicated rules supreme you and you can hear them saying this to their spouses “See this is not only me. Everyone seems to be doing it and enjoying it.” . And suddenly they begin to hear wife swapping stories from everywhere…..from their friends….from their relatives and the desire to try it becomes even stronger and this is where the problem starts. They jump into swinging, encouraged by the stories they hear but only end up having a very bad experience. The point I am trying to make that such stories would always do rounds in the press, in your social circles, in offices etc as they have that sexually titillating effect. Everyone like to talk about them as it gives them that mild erotic pleasure……But we need to remember that no all what we hear is true. And the truth is :

SWINGING IS ABOUT A LIFE STYLE. It can begin as an experiment but can not be an enjoyable experience if you are unable to adapt it as an alternate lifestyle. Genuine swingers are generally very sure and open about their sexuality. Relationships can go bitter over the issues of sexuality so the real swingers are generally very sure as to what they want and what they don’t want. And the most important part is swinger community is a very sensitive community. Swingers Community would collapse if they don’t respect the concerns and sensitivities of others so they never go around spreading stories.

Zorba the Buddha and the freedom to make your own sexual choices

While doing some general reading here and there I came across this quote of Osho “Only a fulfilled tree will flower.” And I immediately connected it to sexual fulfillment and began thinking about it. To the scientific mind the statement would look so obvious but the problem is that we are imposed so many moralities by the societies we live in that we get blinded and fail to see this obvious scientific truth. We are today living in duality where we are continuously trying to suppress our real self. We do what were expected to do and not what our heart wants us to do. So in a way we have ourselves caged our souls in a fictitious world that the society has created for us and we continue to live our lives with masks on, a mask that is representative of our bondage. So the question I ask is that can someone who does not even have the freedom to make his own choices be termed as progressive? If a man can not be brave enough to make his own choices then how is he going to fight for the greater good?

Wife Swapping - The start of the end of a relationship

You would be hearing wife swapping stories daily and they are the most read stories on the internet. One time or the other every man would have fantasized about wife swapping but this is where it should stop – just at pure fantasy. Studies have revealed that wife swapping can most of the times destroy relationships more than it builds it. Many claim that wife swapping increases the trust between couples and brings them more because of the very fact that they can share their fantasies openly with their partners. Let’s look at some facts that would bring out clearly a strong case against wife swapping

• Its’ never Mutual. Studies say that in 80 percent of the cases men talk their better halves into it. So women who might be averse to the idea become comfortable with the fact with the passage of time.
  
  
• What if he performed better than me? Well look at the internet sales of certain kind medicines and you would understand what I am talking about. Men are so concerned about the sexual performance that it becomes like an obsession with them. So when you take a stranger to your bedroom and your wife acknowledges the fact that she had good sex with him, all kinds of insecurities start creeping in. Men who were the first so keen about the whole thing start feeling insecure and this kind of insecurity can wreck any relationship.
  
  
• Everyone’s sexual preferences should be respected: Let’s face it. No two people are the same when it comes to sexual preferences. When men go for wife swapping they don’t really give their wives any choice. Whether they like it or not they have to end up doing sex against their wishes. It is more like forced sex but which women are generally happy to do for the love of their hubbies.
  

So these are just a few points I made against wife swapping and the truth remains that most couples feel emotionally wrecked after their first swapping experience.

So does that mean that you do not enjoy the ecstasy that you feel after a satisfying sexual encounter with a stranger? NO Certainly Not. This is where SWINGIING PARTIES(sex parties) comes to the rescue. The very nature of swinging ensures that the after effects of any sexual encounter are minimum and the end result is a memorable experience. First of all you don’t take any stranger in to you bedroom, you go to swinger parties and socialize with lots of couples. You are not necessarily under pressure to have sex but you can enoy watching other souls perform the act of sex. Couples and more specifically women can make all the choices. Just because the wife is having sex with someone does not ensure that a man would also having sex with someone :-) And if a man goes in with this knowledge you can be sure that he respects the choices of his wife and that he is mature enough that he wont be effected by any kind of side effect. One more important fact about swing parties is that every activity is happening in the open so for going and becoming a part of that party needs a lots mental preparation and when when you end up in such party you know that you are sure of what you are doing!!!!!!!!

And the last point and that is most important is that that group dynamism(seeing so many people having sex and even group sex) creates such an exhilarating ambience that you feel that it’s a wild party going on and that you must also take part in the festivities and celebrations!!!!!

Threesomes and the Spirituality Meter

For last couple of days I have been posing this question to every man I meet (nearly every man I meet ) about what his fantasy was and one does not have to be a genius to figure out that nearly 90% of men answered that their fantasy was having a threesome with their better halves and another female. The rest 10% men said(I must confess though that I was surprised by this high percentage) that their fantasy was to see their wife in a threesome with them and another man. Frankly speaking these are the 10% who can be initiated easily into spiritualism because they are not all the times thinking about themselves. They have the sensitivities to care about their better halves too and when you care about others more than you care about yourself you know you are moving closer to god. And for those 90% self centered guys I would only say that your other half has a life too!!!!!

Extreme Programming, Tantra, HIV and the art of living in Ecstasy

Last night I visited a swingers club in second life and made some very good friends over there. Our conversations wandered through many topics and one topic I broached all of them suddenly stopped and shouted in unison “What, how can it be possible”. Well it was a reaction to the statement I made about feeling joys of sex without actually having intercourse. I remember this was the same puzzled reaction that I gave when I was first being taught about Test First Programming/Extreme Programming- “How can you write test cases for you code before writing a single piece of code?” But now when I am initiated into it I am thankful and even grateful to the concept for now every time I program I can find the joy in programming which other wise was just another mundane job I had to do.

The concept of sex without insertion and ejaculation come from the ancient Buddhism practice of Tantra in Buddhism. One of the basics tenets of Tantra is to look at things without focusing on external material evaluations of what our body looks like, what dress you wear, what is your hairstyle etc but it encourages you to explore new paths to sexual fulfillment. Incorporating ideas of Tantra into your sex life can be something anyone can do regardless of age and sexual orientation. Tantra sex is all about channeling our sexual energies in a way so that it leads to an increased awareness and that ultimately leads to fulfillment and enlightenment. This channeling requires that rather than the energies being released there is a continuous flow of energy in our body that creates a state of ecstasy that always stays with us irrespective of whether we had we had sex or not. So when once masters the art of tantra one remains in constant state of bliss that ultimately leads to a greater understanding of our inner self.

PS: In a world where HIV poses a real threat to the human race so much so that it can actually convert the process of procreation into the cause of human extinction Tantra holds a lot of promise and potential

Swinging to find contentment and get closer to god......

We as humans have made it a habit to run after everything that can give us material pleasures. In the process we forget the virtues and the joy of that one gets by drowning himself in godliness. A couple of years back I realized that I was also doing the same…..running …running …running , seeking more and more and in the process running away from my self and running away from that eternal feeling of bliss. So one day after a full filling orgy when I was sitting lying on the couch I realized that there were rarely any joys of life that equaled the state of joy I was then in. I was elated. rejuvenated, had a clarity of ideas and most important of all I was in a contended state of mind. And I thanked god for giving me that contentment which was otherwise so hard to find.

So I thought that apart from the purpose of procreation maybe this is more reason for god to have created sex – to gift us a way to feel contended. Maybe he knew that man would be always restless and would run after material things so he created something which was closer to nature and something that could be achieved easily without destroying the harmony with nature and with god. And this always works like a magic charm for me ..whenever I feel restless I go and take part in an orgy with those wonderful souls and come back with a feeling of contentment. And that is the stage when I can rise above myself and work to achieve greater goals and work for greater good. And that is the stage when my race for petty things stops and my inward journey starts

Rules for Our Swingers Club

To ensure the privacy and safety of our members we have a strict set of rules. To make your experience truly memorable we request you to go through the rules before you request for membership.

MEMBERSHIP 

• The Party Venues are private and does NOT have an open door policy. Membership is compulsory.
• Membership is open to Couples and Single Females only.
• Each interested couple must provide a brief profile of themselves. We don't require any photographs or real names but the profile should indicative of your personality. 
• All members must go though a vetting process before they are taken in as members.
• New members must bring ID with them on their first visit to the Party Venue.
• The coordinator on the night of the event reserves the right to refuse entrance to the Party Venue without explanation.
• No Persons Under Age are allowed in to the Venue under any circumstances.
• Smoking/Drinking/Drugs are strictly prohibited.
  

Note: To ensure the safety and confidentiality we have a very rigid selection process. Please ensure that you are willing to meet the coordinator for a personal chat before mailing to us. This is a "SCREENING STEP" where through a very cordial conversation the coordinator tries to judge whether you would comfortably fit into our swingers universe. The meeting does not guarantee you inclusion in the swingers club. The coordinator holds the right to reject any couple without giving any explanations.


ETIQUETTE

• Always ask first!
• NO means NO!
• NO pressure - NO pestering. NO exceptions!
  
  

RESPECT

• The party coordinator asks all attendees to please show the utmost respect for the venue and all persons present.
• Aggressive behavior will NOT be tolerated and will result in the perpetrator(s) being asked to leave the venue immediately.
• Our aim is to foster and encourage a friendly and polite environment where everyone is at ease and relaxed.
• If you have any concerns during your visit please advise the coordinator immediately and he will deal with the situation with the utmost discretion. If you are asked to leave please leave quietly with pride and without hindrance.
• If you fail to do this your membership may be terminated.
• All attendees are asked to arrive and leave quietly
  

Play Areas

There are designated play areas for the action. Each play area has rules associated with them. We expect every member to strictly follow the rules associated with the play areas. We discourage any sort of action out of the designated play areas

Important Note: Even in a play area a “No” means a “No” full stop.

PERSONAL HYGIENE:

A special message for everyone. Personal Hygiene is a must for close encounters of a "Third Kind".. So... if you cannot afford to buy/use deodorants - soaps/toothpaste etc., please ask the coordinator when you arrive and he will make an announcement regarding your plight and have a whip around for you! :-) (Big Smile)

SAFE SEX

Anyone practicing unsafe sex(even with their own partners) at the party venue would not be tolerated

Announcing the opening of a Swingers Club in Delhi, India

Well I visited a few swingers club in UK during my last visit and liked the concept very well. Its a great place to socialize and have fun at the same time. It’s a good place to release all your negative energies too. And when you have released all your negative energies you can see the world with a different perspective. This is when you have attained a stage where you can open your senses to attain a state of spiritualism which is other wise so hard to achieve.

Its a pity you don’t have such places in India or at least I don’t know of any swingers club in the true sense. Well I know that other forms like partner swapping is common but have not heard of any swingers club as such. Couple swapping might be good to release that sexual energy but swinging is more natural to achieving a state of ecstasy as it incorporates the principles of "Social Dynamism" which are is very necessary for any such experiments to succeed.


So here I am announcing my intention to open up a swinger club. A club that would be run as a non profit organization but would actively seek to promote spirituality though participating in active swinging. But like any other organization that is formed this one would also need a “Charter” to be formed. And who all can be a part of the charter drafting body?--- Well if you are a couple or a single female then you are eligible (Sorry I cant take the risk with single men in India as their maturity level is still not what would be desired part of such an effort). So I invite all those who might be interested in being the founding members of such a club to mail me at swingers.india@gmail.com and also very briefly telling me about what you do, your personal profile and why you would be interested in being a part of the swingers club

Starting the journey-My experiments with Sexuality

I have realized that most of the times my thoughts are revolving around sex. I am living in a constant feeling of desire. A feeling that wants me want more and more of sex. The more I have the more joy I get, the more joy I get the more happy I am and the more happy i am the more joy I spread around me.

Someone told me that when you are drowned in godliness you always tend to remain happy and when you are happy you spread joy around. So that makes me think that if the end result of indulging in sexuality has the same results for you and the environment around you as that of spirituality then one thing can be replaced by the other. One word of caution that I would like to add here is that you need to look at sexuality in the right perspective and the right context. You can keep on reading spiritual book for years and yet fail to achieve even iota of spiritualism if you dont see things in the right context. In similar way you need to understand sexuality with an open heart and mind to truly derive benefits that are equivalent to achieving a higher level of spiritual state.