What's love got to do with it?

Most of us may not accept this fact but most of the times we are performing the act of sex just as a pure form of deriving pleasure. Most of us would willingly go that extra mile to make that feeling of ecstasy that comes with orgasm last long. So until and unless you are consciously practicing tantra (tantra is a mystical experience born out of the union between man and woman. It is an opportunity to open to energy rising up through your body and to experience merging with the Divine) most of our sexual encounters are just another activity of seeking material pleasures. No matter how long I go about justifying it but within my heart I know that I can not associate the feeling of bliss of being love with the joys of sex. If you look at it the reasoning is very simple – Most of us get aroused on seeing erotic scenes but there in no element of love involved here, Most of us would masturbate for feeling that orgasmic pleasure and certainly there is no element of love or emotions involved in it. So most of the times the experience is not necessarily related to love so I should not be making such a big fuss about it when my girl friend goes and has sex with some other guy. Just because she had sex with someone does not mean that she loves me less ………..