The dictionary of swinging a.k.a the common terms that swingers use

Here is a list of most common terms used in the swinger’s communities. Do let me know if you come across any other terms might be added:

• Soft Swinging: In this form lots of couples/swingers are having sex in the same room but strictly with their own partners.
  
  
• Exhibitionism: Exhibitionism involves couples having sex while being watched by their partners. These are always the fantasies of every couple before the venture into swinging.
  
  
• Soft swap: Couples doing a soft swap usually just kiss, touch, watch, and perform oral sex. They indulge in sexual intercourse. This is generally encouraged fro couples who are new and are still exploring. Personally I feel that soft swap can be most satisfying and enjoyable if you know the art of erotica well. Sometimes even for experienced swingers soft swap provide a more enjoyable experience then full fledged intercourse.
  
  
• Full swap: Full swap involves couples switching partners and then having sexual intercourse.
  
  
• Group sex. Group sex is about couples having sex with more than one couple. This according to me is swinging in its purest form. This is where you rise above everything else (race, color, looks, age) and just enjoy joys of sex and feel the ecstasy that can be only matched by divine bliss.