- Its’ never Mutual. Studies say that in 80 percent of the cases men talk their better halves into it. So women who might be averse to the idea become comfortable with the fact with the passage of time.
- What if he performed better than me? Well look at the internet sales of certain kind medicines and you would understand what I am talking about. Men are so concerned about the sexual performance that it becomes like an obsession with them. So when you take a stranger to your bedroom and your wife acknowledges the fact that she had good sex with him, all kinds of insecurities start creeping in. Men who were the first so keen about the whole thing start feeling insecure and this kind of insecurity can wreck any relationship.
- Everyone’s sexual preferences should be respected: Let’s face it. No two people are the same when it comes to sexual preferences. When men go for wife swapping they don’t really give their wives any choice. Whether they like it or not they have to end up doing sex against their wishes. It is more like forced sex but which women are generally happy to do for the love of their hubbies.
So these are just a few points I made against wife swapping and the truth remains that most couples feel emotionally wrecked after their first swapping experience.
So does that mean that you do not enjoy the ecstasy that you feel after a satisfying sexual encounter with a stranger? NO Certainly Not. This is where SWINGIING PARTIES(sex parties) comes to the rescue. The very nature of swinging ensures that the after effects of any sexual encounter are minimum and the end result is a memorable experience. First of all you don’t take any stranger in to you bedroom, you go to swinger parties and socialize with lots of couples. You are not necessarily under pressure to have sex but you can enoy watching other souls perform the act of sex. Couples and more specifically women can make all the choices. Just because the wife is having sex with someone does not ensure that a man would also having sex with someone :-) And if a man goes in with this knowledge you can be sure that he respects the choices of his wife and that he is mature enough that he wont be effected by any kind of side effect. One more important fact about swing parties is that every activity is happening in the open so for going and becoming a part of that party needs a lots mental preparation and when when you end up in such party you know that you are sure of what you are doing!!!!!!!!
And the last point and that is most important is that that group dynamism(seeing so many people having sex and even group sex) creates such an exhilarating ambience that you feel that it’s a wild party going on and that you must also take part in the festivities and celebrations!!!!!