Now accepting dinner invitations from Delhi swingers !!!

I get a lot of emails from couples who are eager to participate in my parties but of late I was not able to reply to them actively. Now that I am back on the party circuit once more I try to reply to the emails as soon as I can. Some would say that how much time does it take to send a canned email but for someone who is as lazy as me that also is a herculean task :-) Usually the next step after email exchange is a meeting at some public place and now I have nearly exhausted all the public places in delhi that I found out to be safe. So now am looking for accepting dinner invitations from everyone and anyone who cares to be a part of the club. You don’t have to invite me at your home as I can understand your concerns but yes any other place would do(even a the roadside dhaba would do :-) ). There is something about dinners that makes the whole experience much more personalized and it’s an age old proven fact that you connect the best via your tummy. So just email me with an invitation and take the first step to joining our swingers family. You don’t have to be a perfect host but the only thing that you might want to take note is that I don’t drink and I am a vegetarian :-)

Confessions of a Fuck Buddy

Having found some time out for trying out various crazy things these days I am on dating spree. So this weekend was date number 4 for me and I somehow persuaded my charming date to go on a long drive with me. I had to take the test of sanity before she agreed but somehow I managed to pass the test with flying colors. All was going well till the moment she boarded my car and she ordered me to turn on the music and before I could even give an explanation she was screaming at me: “How do you suppose we are going to spend these 8 hours without a music system”. “By talking” I replied and there began our journey of non stop conversations, some silly, some outrageous and some tantalizingly naughty. Once in a while I kept on popping her questions that not everyone is comfortable about answering but she kept on answering them all as if I was asking her something elementary which was common knowledge. The ease and the honesty with which she was answering my queries made me respect her even more and her sexiness started growing even more and more. There were many arguments but in the end there is one thing that she made me learn and I would like to carry these lessons with the rest of my life with me. “When it comes to sexuality don’t believe every word of what a woman says. Not many women would answer the question in affirmative like me when you ask her bluntly the question whether she masturbates or not”. I realized that she was one the very few (I can count them on my finger tips) who had answered this question in affirmative and that had led me to make some assumption that were clearly misplaced from reality. And in the end I am so charmed by her honesty that I want to go with her on a long drive once again.

I know you are reading this so I would ask you once again. Would you go out with me and once again create some fond memories?. There won’t be any music this time too but I promise that I would get that horn repaired!!!

Wife swapping parties in Delhi

“Do you know of any club that is into wife swapping in Delhi?” This is the first question that most people ask when they come to know that I don’t do wife swapping parties. Come on Delhi get over it, it makes it sound so ridiculous, like a desperate attempt to have sex that the Delhities would even treat their wives like objects and swap then like tradable goods. Please don’t approach me if you want to end up asking this question. Please take some time out and read my blog so that you know what my parties are about and what the whole idea is. It upsets me when I have to answer the same question and again and countless times, I would once again emphasize that our parties are not wife swapping parties and nor can I refer you to any such club that engages in wife swapping parties. So only approach me if you feel that you and your partners have independent sexualities and both are open to exploring it independently with no conditions attached. And yes there is one question that I would gladly entertain “Do you hold husband swapping parties” :-)

Its party time once again and this time its going to be GOA

Goa is one place where I had always wanted to host one of our parties and I am going to end my hibernation with a party in Goa this New Year. I have some fond memories the trip I made goa and I am convinced that if there is any place that is worth travelling miles to hold a party then Goa definitely is that place. So this time it would be goa and it would be grandiose to match the exuberance that is in the air of goa. There would be games, games and more games along with the dances, dances and more dances. So either you play whole night or you dance whole night there would be no third option. (Sorry you can’t drink all night as there would be no booze). One of the attractions of the party would be a new game called “Wheel of Foreplay” where you “take away some handsome prices or receive a naughty punishment!!”. The customary grope walls and the chairs would still be there but I am sure that the wheel of foreplay would leave your head spinning for long. The party would be open to only 12 couples so make sure you book your place for this at the earliest. And this should be the most compelling reason for you to fly to goa - “Its new year man, what you do on the first day , you can hope of doing the same thing through out the year….”

PS: Please note that this is not a Wife Swapping club but a genuine travel club which holds parties at exotic locations in India and abroad. Pleas make sure thart you have read the rules at http://indianswingers.blogspot.com/2008/03/rules-for-our-swingers-club.html before you contact me

Alternate Nirvana: An exclusive travel club for the discerning couples!!!!

Today I am going to end my exile and get back into what I do best. - Playing host to naughty parties :-) I am also delighted to have finally laid the foundations of a premier travel club exclusively for couples who want to mix travel with a bit of exploration of their wilder side. You can visit the site at www.alternatenirvana.com . It’s a humble start but there is no dearth of ambition and I aspire that every trip that you people make creates memories for you that would last for the lifetime and those that you would yearn to relive again. For me sex is like any other work of art whose beauty lies in the hands of the artist giving it an expression. And when this expression reaches the heights of ecstasy you reach a state of absolute bliss – nirvana. Its not difficult all you need to do is to loose your inhibitions and just have that willingness to explore. :-) So just take the first step and contact me at swingers.india@gmail.com and you can be sure that by doing so you have opened the doors to a world of sensual possibilities !!!!


PS: Please note that this is not a Wife Swapping club but a genuine travel club which holds parties at exotic locations in India and abroad. Pleas make sure thart you have read the rules at http://indianswingers.blogspot.com/2008/03/rules-for-our-swingers-club.html before you contact me.

No group sex please, We are Indians

I was feeling pretty bored today so just thought of digging into history of group sex. While I came across many interesting facts but what intrigued me the most were the pictures from years gone by on group sex.




Kamasutra somewhere between 1AD to 6AD






Peter Fendi, 1835



Édouard-Henri Avril -1910

Does something hit you too as it hit me :-)?

They came. They conquered. They were the Real Swingers

They came from nowhere. They were under no obligation. They had noting to gain. All reason and logic was strongly pitted against what they were going to do. They could have turned back anytime. They had at least 100 reasons to so.  But still they went ahead and gave me a birthday present that I would cherish for the rest of my life. At a time when I did not even get many emails wishing me on my birthday they went out of their way to fulfill my birthday wish. Over the years I have seen enough naked bodies and enjoyed enough carnal pleasures but the experience I had in their company was truly inspiring and uplifting one. It reaffirmed my belief that more than anything else genuine swingers are progressive thinkers and have a big big heart. If you two are reading this then I would like you two know that It was truly a privilege to be in company of people as wonderful as you two. You have motivated me to pursue my dream of opening a professionally run swingers club with even more zeal and passion and with support of lovely people like you I am sure I am going to get there very soon.

Thank you once again for making my birthday so special!!!

What is sexual liberation anyways…..?

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“Dog gets horny…. Dog not alert…. dog ends up under the car….”

This was something that a lovely couple remarked when I was talking heart to heart to them. At that point of time I was in splits of laughter but later I realized that there is a story to be leant in those innocuous remarks. Most of us Indian Swingers would loose our sense of right or wrong when are at a stage when we just want to do it. We would blow all the caution to the wind and would just want to get on with it. And how can you even think of stopping someone who is right now peaking…:-) But just think of it like this way…just fast forward the whole thing to a time when you would have done it all and would be sitting with hearts content then at that moment would you also think of being so reckless all over again?

Anyways that was just a passing thought but I would like to share with you something that I am going to start in the coming days. I would be trying to bring to you all the ancient ways of love making… be it Indian or Egyptian :-) and maybe some techniques would be just good enough to add more spice to your life )

10,000 and going strong………………..

F5, F5 and F5 once again. This was the key I was pressing the whole day today and finally just a minute back I finally reached a milestone that I was so impatiently waiting for – the 10,000 inquiry mail in my mail box :-). I had set it as some sort of personal milestones for me and seeing the mail count reach 995 I was anxiously keeping an eye on my gmail account. I could today feel the agony of a batsman stuck in the nervous nineties, and I can now tell you that it’s really painful to be left waiting like this. But anyway now that I have interacted through so many people and organized a couple of very successful parties I would like to present my view of the current state of sexuality in India. There are many other revelations also that come out strikingly from the mails I receive I would like to stick here to the topic that we all love to talk about!!!!!

· Lack of Respect of women: This is the most thing that comes out from most of the mails. Anyone who would go through my blog would realize that what I run is not a wife swapping club but an avenue where like mined people meet and indulge in sexual explorations. It is not a “You do my wife and I would do yours”. All activities happen in the same room and it is very much possible with women making their own choices irrespective of what their spouses do. Both can make their choices independently of each other. But still 90% of mails I get are about wife swapping, wife sharing where the language used even shows that how men treat their wives to get something that is otherwise elusive to them. When I tell my concept to people the first question that they ask me is:

“If my wife is going with someone then what happened if his wife refuses to go along with me” This is the most asked question and this put in cruder way is :”I would allow you to fuck my wife if you allow me to fuck yours”. I take pains to make them understand that well this is all about everyone doing what they enjoy so if your wife is enjoying with someone or a group then well let her do it and you can sit and have a glass of juice :-) (Remember no drinks allowed)

· Swinging is not yet an alternate lifestyle and we are not yet a sexually liberated society: Someone who can read between the lines and who can deduce inference would be able to make out that most people in India would indulge in swinging not because they enjoy this lifestyle but because this is the most easy and accessible way to get sex. I am not denying the fact that genuine swinger’s exist in India too but the percentage is very miniscule as compared to those who are using their wives to get easy sex. You would agree with me that for a average person hunting for sex is still a difficult task in the Indian society so people tend to take an alternate route. A decent professional escort can go upto 25K per night and not all can afford that , so the other option is exercised that is of using your wife. To stress this point I would like to bring out a figure that as much as 70% of email I get are 2 liners and those two liners are also in badly written English. The mails would go like :

“we have a couple from delhi iam 38 and33 we have intrested in sweeping please mail me what is the prosiger and wheare are meating plase email id is “
One more point that I would put to support my argument here is that out of the I have got only 3 mails which say that they enjoy MMF threesomes rest everyone was looking for FMF.

Bisexuality….What would that be?
Of all the parties I have organized so far I have seen bisexual action happening in only 2 of them. We are more orthodox when it comes to sexual expression. Though I truly respect everyone sexual choices but I am making this point just to emphasize the fact that we might not necessarily ape the sexuality of the west and we can have our own sexual behaviors and peculiarities.

Lack of Sex Education: The only disease that couples know exist is AIDS and most would not know that there are many equally dangerous STD’s that can spread even if you are doing oral sex. And you would not even believe it that many men even put their preferences that they don’t like to wear condoms!!!!!

These were some of my observations that I wanted to share with the readers of my blog but that does not mean that you would never find genuine swingers if you set out to fine one. Our parties is all about having fun and all the couples have to go through a very strict scanning procedure to get an invitation to the swingers party. Only those who have the right attitude to enjoy responsibly are invited and one of the main considerations is that they should believe in the freedom of sexual expression of their partners. So our parties are full of fun and frolic where lots of animated activities take place. Women volunteer to take part in games of a different dimension and men cheer them on. And that’s the fun part when everyone can enjoy like there is one big party going on……………….

And the two wishes for my birthday are…….

There are many kinds of sexual kinks people have. While in the west because of sociological reasons you would get many type of fetish/kinks(we cannot even imagine in India that there would be so many people of would love to get inflicted with pain and humiliation) you would not have many people with fancy kinks and fetishes in India. How many of us who don’t frequent the net often would understand the meaning of terms like cuckold, Dom, Sub..? I can bet very few. But any ways I would lay down the two kinks that are on the top of my list - To spend couple of hours with a truly submissive woman and to play the voyeur guy. The realization of first kink is impossible here so that leaves the possibility of second kink wide open. There must be some couples(even of they are gay or lesbians) out there who would have had the crazy kink of getting watched by a stranger? So if you happen to read this article and you also accidentally happen to have any of the two kinks then I am waiting for an invitation from your side!!!!! Mail me at swingers.india@gmail.com  and with my birthday falling this month I can take it as a birthday gift….and yes I would also happily take belated birthday wishes ;-0

If you look back in your life what do you remember………………..?

Recently I was asking this question to each and everyone I bumped into. If you look back in your life what are the happiest moments you remember if you look back in your life. For some it was their first bicycle ride, for some it was their first date when they first held hand, that romantic dinner, that holiday with friends, college farewell, their house warming parties, the first word that their kid spoke……..the list goes on. But helloooo wait wait wait don’t we see something missing in the list.? No one mentioned about – that awesome sex they had the other night!!!!!! And this brings me to the point that I am trying to make that just as you would not fondly remember that lovely cake you at the other day, in a similar way you would not fondly cherish sex when you look back and try to reminisce on the best moments of your life. 

So can sex be divine?

Well if something is divine then that feeling lingers with you and it shows in everything you do. Just like love. When you feel loved you bask and it shows in everything you do in life. You would remember fondly the girl you loved as childhood sweetheart, you would remember how lovingly you made pancakes for your boyfriend…and after all these years even at the cost of feeling stupid at this mature age you would still lovingly let those thoughts come back to you and fill you with those emotions…… . But the same is most of times not true for sex. You just have a good experience (or a bad one :-) and you just forget!!!! So again this brings to me my final question that why we give sex so much importance when it plays such an insignificant role in our larger lives. Why do we make so many rules around it? Why do we judge people based on their sexual preferences? Why do we call someone of loose character when someone ends up doing sex with multiple partners..? 

Wet T-Shirt contest at the Indian Swingers

Its been quite some time since we had out last party and its time to plan a new one. Yeah we are back and how so :-) We would be holding a wet thirt contest this time for all those lovely women who dare to bare and all those hubbies who feel proud of their women. So all you lovely people out there jump on the bandwagon and make it a night to remember. I know it would be a little cold for the wet tshirt contest but as an incentive to every one with a sporting spirit we are going to give membership of upcoming exclusive new travel club totally free. And considering that the travel club membership is USD 999 this to me looks like a good enough incentive :-) So what are you waiting for ? Just shoot in a mail to me at swingers.india@gmail.com with the subject "Wet T-Shirt Contest" and be prepared to be part of the most adventurous and fun filled parties in the town

PS: This party is striclty for women who would not mind getting wet. So please make sure you want to abide this rule before you enter.