Saturday, March 29, 2008

Rules for Our Swingers Club

To ensure the privacy and safety of our members we have a strict set of rules. To make your experience truly memorable we request you to go through the rules before you request for membership.


MEMBERSHIP 
  • The Party Venues are private and does NOT have an open door policy. Membership is compulsory.
  • Membership is open to Couples and Single Females only.
  • Each interested couple must provide a brief profile of themselves. We don't require any photographs or real names but the profile should indicative of your personality. 
  • All members must go though a vetting process before they are taken in as members.
  • New members must bring ID with them on their first visit to the Party Venue.
  • The coordinator on the night of the event reserves the right to refuse entrance to the Party Venue without explanation.
  • No Persons Under Age are allowed in to the Venue under any circumstances.
  • Smoking/Drinking/Drugs are strictly prohibited.
Note: To ensure the safety and confidentiality we have a very rigid selection process. Please ensure that you are willing to meet the coordinator for a personal chat before mailing to us. This is a "SCREENING STEP" where through a very cordial conversation the coordinator tries to judge whether you would comfortably fit into our swingers universe. The meeting does not guarantee you inclusion in the swingers club. The coordinator holds the right to reject any couple without giving any explanations.


ETIQUETTE
  • Always ask first!
  • NO means NO!
  • NO pressure - NO pestering. NO exceptions!

RESPECT

  • The party coordinator asks all attendees to please show the utmost respect for the venue and all persons present.
  • Aggressive behavior will NOT be tolerated and will result in the perpetrator(s) being asked to leave the venue immediately.
  • Our aim is to foster and encourage a friendly and polite environment where everyone is at ease and relaxed.
  • If you have any concerns during your visit please advise the coordinator immediately and he will deal with the situation with the utmost discretion. If you are asked to leave please leave quietly with pride and without hindrance.
  • If you fail to do this your membership may be terminated.
  • All attendees are asked to arrive and leave quietly

Play Areas

There are designated play areas for the action. Each play area has rules associated with them. We expect every member to strictly follow the rules associated with the play areas. We discourage any sort of action out of the designated play areas

Important Note: Even in a play area a “No” means a “No” full stop.

PERSONAL HYGIENE:

A special message for everyone. Personal Hygiene is a must for close encounters of a "Third Kind".. So... if you cannot afford to buy/use deodorants - soaps/toothpaste etc., please ask the coordinator when you arrive and he will make an announcement regarding your plight and have a whip around for you! :-) (Big Smile)

SAFE SEX

Anyone practicing unsafe sex(even with their own partners) at the party venue would not be tolerated

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Announcing the opening of a Swingers Club in Delhi, India

Well I visited a few swingers club in UK during my last visit and liked the concept very well. Its a great place to socialize and have fun at the same time. It’s a good place to release all your negative energies too. And when you have released all your negative energies you can see the world with a different perspective. This is when you have attained a stage where you can open your senses to attain a state of spiritualism which is other wise so hard to achieve.

Its a pity you don’t have such places in India or at least I don’t know of any swingers club in the true sense. Well I know that other forms like partner swapping is common but have not heard of any swingers club as such. Couple swapping might be good to release that sexual energy but swinging is more natural to achieving a state of ecstasy as it incorporates the principles of "Social Dynamism" which are is very necessary for any such experiments to succeed.


So here I am announcing my intention to open up a swinger club. A club that would be run as a non profit organization but would actively seek to promote spirituality though participating in active swinging. But like any other organization that is formed this one would also need a “Charter” to be formed. And who all can be a part of the charter drafting body?--- Well if you are a couple or a single female then you are eligible (Sorry I cant take the risk with single men in India as their maturity level is still not what would be desired part of such an effort). So I invite all those who might be interested in being the founding members of such a club to mail me at swingers.india@gmail.com and also very briefly telling me about what you do, your personal profile and why you would be interested in being a part of the swingers club

Monday, March 24, 2008

Starting the journey-My experiments with Sexuality

I have realized that most of the times my thoughts are revolving around sex. I am living in a constant feeling of desire. A feeling that wants me want more and more of sex. The more I have the more joy I get, the more joy I get the more happy I am and the more happy i am the more joy I spread around me.

Someone told me that when you are drowned in godliness you always tend to remain happy and when you are happy you spread joy around. So that makes me think that if the end result of indulging in sexuality has the same results for you and the environment around you as that of spirituality then one thing can be replaced by the other. One word of caution that I would like to add here is that you need to look at sexuality in the right perspective and the right context. You can keep on reading spiritual book for years and yet fail to achieve even iota of spiritualism if you dont see things in the right context. In similar way you need to understand sexuality with an open heart and mind to truly derive benefits that are equivalent to achieving a higher level of spiritual state.