And the two wishes for my birthday are…….

There are many kinds of sexual kinks people have. While in the west because of sociological reasons you would get many type of fetish/kinks(we cannot even imagine in India that there would be so many people of would love to get inflicted with pain and humiliation) you would not have many people with fancy kinks and fetishes in India. How many of us who don’t frequent the net often would understand the meaning of terms like cuckold, Dom, Sub..? I can bet very few. But any ways I would lay down the two kinks that are on the top of my list - To spend couple of hours with a truly submissive woman and to play the voyeur guy. The realization of first kink is impossible here so that leaves the possibility of second kink wide open. There must be some couples(even of they are gay or lesbians) out there who would have had the crazy kink of getting watched by a stranger? So if you happen to read this article and you also accidentally happen to have any of the two kinks then I am waiting for an invitation from your side!!!!! Mail me at swingers.india@gmail.com  and with my birthday falling this month I can take it as a birthday gift….and yes I would also happily take belated birthday wishes ;-0

If you look back in your life what do you remember………………..?

Recently I was asking this question to each and everyone I bumped into. If you look back in your life what are the happiest moments you remember if you look back in your life. For some it was their first bicycle ride, for some it was their first date when they first held hand, that romantic dinner, that holiday with friends, college farewell, their house warming parties, the first word that their kid spoke……..the list goes on. But helloooo wait wait wait don’t we see something missing in the list.? No one mentioned about – that awesome sex they had the other night!!!!!! And this brings me to the point that I am trying to make that just as you would not fondly remember that lovely cake you at the other day, in a similar way you would not fondly cherish sex when you look back and try to reminisce on the best moments of your life. 

So can sex be divine?

Well if something is divine then that feeling lingers with you and it shows in everything you do. Just like love. When you feel loved you bask and it shows in everything you do in life. You would remember fondly the girl you loved as childhood sweetheart, you would remember how lovingly you made pancakes for your boyfriend…and after all these years even at the cost of feeling stupid at this mature age you would still lovingly let those thoughts come back to you and fill you with those emotions…… . But the same is most of times not true for sex. You just have a good experience (or a bad one :-) and you just forget!!!! So again this brings to me my final question that why we give sex so much importance when it plays such an insignificant role in our larger lives. Why do we make so many rules around it? Why do we judge people based on their sexual preferences? Why do we call someone of loose character when someone ends up doing sex with multiple partners..? 

Wet T-Shirt contest at the Indian Swingers

Its been quite some time since we had out last party and its time to plan a new one. Yeah we are back and how so :-) We would be holding a wet thirt contest this time for all those lovely women who dare to bare and all those hubbies who feel proud of their women. So all you lovely people out there jump on the bandwagon and make it a night to remember. I know it would be a little cold for the wet tshirt contest but as an incentive to every one with a sporting spirit we are going to give membership of upcoming exclusive new travel club totally free. And considering that the travel club membership is USD 999 this to me looks like a good enough incentive :-) So what are you waiting for ? Just shoot in a mail to me at swingers.india@gmail.com with the subject "Wet T-Shirt Contest" and be prepared to be part of the most adventurous and fun filled parties in the town

PS: This party is striclty for women who would not mind getting wet. So please make sure you want to abide this rule before you enter.

It’s a small world and I know it……

Well certainly it’s a very small world when it comes to the swinging community. Yesterday I got a mail addressed to me as “Dear GPL” and was pleasantly surprised to see someone address me by this name as these brought back memories of my party days. Seeing the word “GPL” I immediately knew that who all they could have been. It was not someone from India as during the parties here I am the organizer and never take part in any action. But in my UK clubbing days I was the “Great Pussy Licker” there :-) (yours truly was very popular among the mature ladies ) so it had to be one of the couple from the place where I was in the hall of fame. And considering the fact that I never mentioned anything about that in my blog and there is not any personal description about me on the blog….someone coming and addressing me as GPL and getting it right was nothing short of a miracle!!!! . Just goes on to show that’s it’s really a small world that has been made even much smaller then the advent of the internet

Finally its curtains for Indian Swingers this year…….

The last party of the year happened yesterday. And what a night it turned out to be. The sets were one of the most elaborate that we ever had in our parties (thanks to andy and riya for it. You are fabulous). For once the grope wall did not fall and the lick chairs had full occupancy :-) . And for once I had a sense of achievement and satisfaction after a long time. When I started to work on this concept I had very little belief that people would be open to this concept in India as typically wife swapping is the kind of activity people engage in. But now I feel that there is a refreshing change in our sexuality and we as a society are more open in expression of our sexuality…….. There were two couples whom I really missed having as guests in this party. They had so patiently waited for this party but it just took a little long than I expected so they were not able to make it for this party. One of them has left for china to purse their professional careers and I wish them luck on behalf of each of us at the Indian swingers……….. Now its finally over and I say goodbye to all those lovely people who made each of the parties memorable but I leave you all with a promise that we would be back next year with a better and much improved version of the Indian Swingers.!!!!!!

Don’t miss the final swingers party of the year!!!!

My professional engagements have been keeping me very busy of late. And as things stand I don’t see it getting any better in the near future. Honestly I feel a guilty when those lovely couples who have put so much of trust and faith in me are expecting the parties to happen and I just have to ask them to wait. It’s not fair on them so I have decided to hold one last party for the year and take a little break and come back next year. Since this is the last party I would try my best to make it a memorable one for all of us. A couple of European swingers have also shown interest so this one is going to be an interracial swinger’s party!!! So be sure to book your slots now (only two slots left) at one of the safest and discreet swinging parties in Delhi. Inspired by the Olympics this party would also feature some of the wildest and entertaining sex games that we would call the sex Olympics!!! So what are you lovely people waiting for? Mail me now at swingers.india.gmail.com and I personally promise you the best time you would have ever had for a long time. :-)

PS: In this party every one would be tagged by the names they feel reflect their sexual mood during the party. So if you decided that you are in a slutty mood then you can very well ask for the tag of “Slutty Anita”!!!

Its always Safety first at Indian Swingers

I am very passionate about sex but at the same time the safety of our members is always my highest priority. If any point of time I feel that the safety (including both health and social) of any of the couples is at stake I would not think twice before closing down the club activities. For me personally swinging is an alternate lifestyle but I would never like to risk anyone’s honor to promote this lifestyle. It’s simply not worth it. I have always tried to make the arrangements fool proof so that everyone can enjoy freely. As a part of these arrangements I have now decided that all our parties that would be held from now on would have Spy Cam Jammers. Although the risk is not very real but I still don’t want to take any chances. I have started the hunt for some good Spy Cam Jammers and would request all lovely swingers out there to help me in this search as my knowledge on these devices is very limited. If you have any suggestion you can mail me at swingers.india@gmail.com